Hi There Fellow Players. Through much study, I've compiled a list of 5 helpful steps to help you succeed with women – any woman, especially beautiful women. If you're tired of not understanding why you're not closing when you know you should be, or just having a hard time getting your mind right, this article should help. These aren't nearly the Jedi insights and masteries that you'll get from Jason Capital, but I'm sure they'll help.
#1: Like Yourself – You must first – before anything – look inside yourself, examine yourself, and accept whatever is there. You must like you before you can ever expect anyone else to even care (or give you a second look). Once you are able to accept who you are, what you look like, your thoughts, feelings, opinions, and situation you will be able to identify with yourself and find value there. This will lead you to the very important second step…
#2 Confidence – Simple confidence cures more than half your battles in this attraction game. There's no one way to gain confidence, but no one can do it for you. You have to reach down, grab a pair, and go. I can tell you the best way to gain confidence I've learned is to set a goal, focus on it, and go after it relentlessly. You will gain confidence from the journey, and find your need for the approval of women significantly decreased.
#3 Be a Challenge – You must appear as if you have something going on in your life. No one likes anyone with no value, and especially beautiful women. It is your job to establish that value. She must think your everyday life is such an adventure that her bring in it is something that you could do with or without. The truth may be that all you ever have to do every day is wake up and water plants, but she doesn't know, and honestly doesn't care – as long as her subconscious perceives differently. In meeting, you don't have to ignore her, but there must be a few other very noticeable distractions. This also involves knowing when to say when. Never hang around her any longer than absolutely necessary when first getting to know her. Neediness (an even slight appearance of wanting a bit too much) will have her running far, far, far away…and fast.
#4 Take Control – Understand how to take control of any situation. Although the alpha male thing doesn't always work, a woman loves a man that's sure of himself. Being sure of yourself also involves understanding what to do. Know good restaurants and what to order when you're there (By the way – spicy foods create a sense danger – order the spicy chicken for you and her and you'll become more mysterious and intriguing by the minute.) Always have good ideas for dates and things to do at a moment's notice. Know how to control your emotions, and how to judge hers. These controls will always work, and there for you to fall back on. A woman hates a man that is indecisive and/or out of control, even if you're wrong she will follow you if you prove to have confidence in what you're doing. And she'll like it, even if she doesn't.
#5 Test Her – What do I mean by test? In order to attract a woman you must first spark and interest. The only way to spark that interest is to take her away from the fact that you are interested in her, and make her realize that she's interested in you. The only way to do this is her have her qualify herself. This is the goal of any interaction. She has to prove herself worthy of you, NOT the other way around. It may sound a little harsh at first, but it's really nothing to it. Once you're used to doing this it will come as natural as breathing. All it takes is get her to talking to you and telling you why she deserves you. This can be easily accomplished through various steps that can be learned from Capital, but begins basically by diverting the conversation and focusing it all on her submission to your will. You can start with something like, "Tell me three things that guys would find interesting, and don't say 'looks'". Make her qualify and she's all yours.
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